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Couple problems? Give yourself to the smooth

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You ever go to go dancing? Near my house there is a senior citizen Center where the summer, virtually every night, the retired dance the smooth outside. The music spreads and arrives on our balcony.
“MOM, what is this music?”, asked to Jeremy.

“It’s smooth, dancing some gentlemen in the Park,” I answered.
“We go?”, he added.

“Okay, I don’t know if we are getting. Let’s try, “I said.

We went and, I must say, that definitely lower the average age of those present.
Children are entertained by matti and me and my husband we concedemmo a nice Waltz, first two, then four.
To see all those white-haired couples that well-organized danced and entertained I wondered: is this the mica elixir of life?

Who Knows! Meanwhile, however, researchers have shown that ballroom dancing is an excellent therapy for couples in crisis.

Research by a team of experienced Women Association and sexologists quality of life, led by psychologist and psychotherapist Serenella Salomoni, revealed the erotic potential of ballroom dancing. Research has investigated the most confidential aspects of life of more than 700 couples between 30 and 70 years and demonstrated how the partners “dancers” have more frequent reports and enjoy a better quality of life.

More tuning proves on the track, will be the most satisfying feeling under the bedclothes, as confirmed by the 32% of the sample and considers it the most exciting dance activities in pairs, lifeblood, for understanding physics, much more than “cooking together” (25%), “take a trip” (18%), “going to the gym” (15%) and “going to the movies” (10%).

According to the study of women and quality of life, Italian music and dance Italian confirmed so the best soundtrack for Casanova of our time: the most sensual rock ‘n roll (25%), more appetizing the allusiveness of Latin rhythms (18%) or reggaeton (16%), and significantly more new of synchronies del tango (12%).

For 26% of the sample, dance enhances sexual feeling simply because it amplifies the opportunities of physical contact, liberating them from taboos and inhibitions. And this is perhaps a consequence the fact that 23% of respondents, dance movements, stimulate the fantasies, while 21% improves the complicity and awakens passion. Finally, dancing relaxes and smoothes (17%) and is considered, the remaining 13% of the sample, an original and eclectic form of courtship.

 

“The dance is a type of therapeutic rehabilitation often underestimated, a cure for enhancing the couple’s bond that applies psychology for years and that I recommend to my patients,” explained the Salomoni. “The dance sets in motion the senses asleep giving new life to the understanding between the partners: tact is stimulated by physical contact, the nose from the mix of scents and pheromones that unfolds during the dances to tap directly into the brain, hearing the music notes in the background, he added. The collection gives rhythm, putting ourselves in a position to have beneficial sensations, pleasure that sentimental and certainly reflected in decisively in two people’s well-being “.

What can I say, this research has convinced? From tomorrow, all smooth school?

I would have only a small observation: Senior Center near my house, I noticed that a large number of dances. Even those who had two dances for excellence have been transformed. From waltzes to the Mazurka, the cha cha cha, first danced in pairs, now are a sequence of steps, and spins a little jumpy.

This also works for couple … or this is more a group therapy?


MOM what a thrill!

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Yesterday we received an e-mail from Dr. Frances Santon, our Psychologist Girlfriend, become MOM for some months.t was an e-

 

“Hi friends, do me a favor? Click I LIKE on the video that appeared on the Facebook page of the study? Is titled “Mom what a thrill” …. thanks!!!!
I went to it I found a very nice and interesting page. “MOM what a thrill!” is an initiative, which also participates in the study of Dr. Santarelli. An initiative designed to help mothers, especially new mothers, to share their emotions, their fears, their feelings with other moms and even with specialized figures, as psychologists.

 

Scheduled meetings are absolutely free of charge. And also of information leaflets which can be obtained at any pharmacy.

 

It seemed a wonderful idea.
From my little experience, I realized that new mothers often are misunderstood by other same moms who have lived the same experience a few years earlier.
Can we have the memories so short?
Can that already after a few years did not include more fatigue, stress, and mood swings that characterize the early months after the birth of a child?
The infinite fatigue, the desire to sleep, nerves stretched …
Can you let us toil of others, as if it were easily solved. And even in moments of apparent difficulty of new mothers, scioriniamo our wonderful nuggets of wisdom, disclose advice (not required) and we tell our experiences as epic action, feel the new MOM often incompetent and inadequate?

 

I’m exaggerating? I assure you of no.

 

So, after seeing this wonderful initiative, I asked Dr. Santon to write a few lines about “MOM what a thrill!”.
Here’s what we wrote:
“My dear mothers, finally after so long, here I am again here among you ….
I would tell you so many things and greet you so much warm, but today I am here to share and publicize an important initiative which I’m continuing with the team of my studio and I hope it will still be useful. Then we, we feel soon, promise!

 

MOM WHAT A THRILL!

 

Becoming a MOM is an event that every woman, with intensity and time of all, personal dreams at least once in their lifetime and when you have the good fortune to get to that dream to reality, I don’t think it can be an entire book to talk about anything that breaks loose in every woman.

 

Someone has the ability and the courage to share it, others are perhaps less aware or maybe just more frightened, but the fact is that we consider important to mention this issue in a clear and transparent, and create a network for sharing and comparison of all those who are going through this phase in their life.

 

The talk of what emotions, thoughts, fears, doubts and insecurities puts you in front of this new reality becomes too often trivialised by those “common” and “proverbial aunts Councils”, which sometimes serve, but others help increase that anxiety and uncertainty that belongs to all of us a little before this immense upheaval we are going to live.

 

Because, let’s face it, we can’t imagine our lives will look like with a baby, we design models and schemas that somehow belong to all of us. Do we hear, we live the experience of friends and acquaintances who have become mothers, but when it is up to us to … open sky!

 

A volcano of emotion that, with the kind contribution of the hormones, do little more than make us feel small and even more frightened.

 

That’s why it’s important to talk about it and share it with people who can hear, understand you objectively and non-judgmental and who don’t want to teach you their experience, their knowledge and professionalism, but they want to accompany YOU and only YOU, with your personal and unique experiences, to this beautiful, magical, but also difficult and complicated life experience.

 

One must never judge what we experience because as always, emotions about us … and with our baby we’ll find out soon! Nothing is more “emotional” relationship with your puppy!

 

What we do in our study is just that. We welcome you, we love you know, know what to try, what do you think, what scares you and what not. Next to our professionalism you will also find “moms” that will keep your hand and sustain you when and if you need it “.


Chidren and holiday

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This is a question I have asked many times what would be left in memory of the children to return from vacation?
We, even during the year, taking advantage of the weekend, we give up so many things to take children out for walks, new experiences, to explore new places and make them feel new emotions.

It ‘something to me, a little’, has been lacking.
Going back in time, digging in my memory, unfortunately I have no memories of long holidays with my parents. They, of having their own business never went on vacation, do not ever shut!
We made trips to the sea on Sunday, the yes! But the maximum duration of a day it was!

We, however, the holiday thankfully we do.

So, what tracks will leave these unique moments in their lives lived with Mom and Dad? Certainly create an archive of emotions and will escort pampering, laughter and hugs! And then what?

But how does the memory of a child and especially how we can help them remember?

Children need to remember to have something that brings to mind the events experienced. So we can take home the items that may be significant, as the shells if you were at sea, a dried flower or a stone if you have been in the mountains, and of course the photos.
So reviewing these things during the winter, the child will remember the good times.

We got into the habit of buying a stick on every trip-magnet to hang on the board of metal that is in the bedroom of Mark. The always chooses him. And I must say it works!

Obviously Mark, having already five years old, remembers the most.
Recent studies, however, have shown that the memory of the children grows with increasing their language proficiency. Speak, tell it helps them remember.
But beware, do not be surprised if rammaricatevi not remember the house by the sea or the hotel.

Their memory is still focused on the details, not the entire holiday.
Remember a particular detail, a scent, something that maybe you will not have even noticed, but not more macroscopic aspects.
Remember the taste of ice cream you’ve (maybe) every day, or the boyfriend with whom he played more, or a particular attraction of the playground.
For them, of course, magic moments.

Each holiday, however, regardless of visual memory, is an experience that enriches the soul. That leaves into emotions and feelings that contribute significantly to shaping the character, the essence, the personality of the man or woman who will.

And this is not necessary to choose places to dream, far away and expensive.
Just a place close.
But one ingredient must not be missed: the affection of their parents!


Gift ideas for Mom-proof-1st part: those profits!

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Yes, it’s time for gifts! I have given a look at all the products seen until now on my blog, and I wanted to make a small collection dedicated to all the new fathers may have missed for new mothers and help them choose their favorite for Christmas!
Today we start with those profits, then we will pass to those more … amazing!  If your baby has yet to be born, and you’re thinking of a pouch, you can opt for the Marsupium Cybex Go First., where the child can be accepted since the first day due to lying.  If you have a child already more say, or if it will be spring-summer period, when the walks will become more likely to consider a more structured waist as the newest Miracle of Bouncer.  Do not miss a good stroller for muff! Winter has arrived, but the worst not yet! Take advantage of Christmas to run for cover with a hot CombiZip of Red Castle, suitable since the cradle, or a magic BundleBeanand versatile, the deck 5 in 1 irresistible design.  You want grandparents a nice gift? Orientateli on a versatile, Lightweight Stroller and ultra compact as QuickSmart Easyfoldthe. From closed into a bag, smaller than that!  Incoming Weaning? armed with a good Chair. The Chicco Polly 2 in 1 is a bestseller that is renewed every year.  If you are in search of the classic “just a little thought” for the buddy of the nest, not renounce to something useful. Excellent cups Easy Grip Nubyspill: guaranteed!  The useful gift for excellence? The upside to chair Smarty Cam: lightweight, compact, modular. Another timeless children’s products. Read the post.

Something more interesting? Order a good BabyLegs escort are unisex, and use in all seasons.


Ah, sorry, I didn’t realize! the gift was for you? well, then there is no doubt: a weekend at a Spa and quite a fly with parachute


Aprovadimamma gift ideas, 2nd part: those that “no”.

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When you give the fountain pen laureate, when you combine world-class silver frame, when you have a child …
… When you have a child Spacey relatives and friends go crazy, and you arrive at home really “the worse things”.  The temptation to leave the baby “just for a moment” is frequent and justified (even just to pee!), but don’t take anxiety: get yourself a good box and avoid the hanging-child. No one can guarantee that the port can handle. If you arrives wrapped, rimandatelo back with the bow.

We are still in vogue, but other countries were even banned! It seems that the “rotors” diminish the exercise of even and legs make incorrect posture, and impede learning to walk. Therefore, if you give, even no.
If you’re lucky you might even get away with something useful like, as the Mom-timer, object of desire of mothers ex-manager-super-organized that very soon they realize that a child is not accompanied by instructions (and certainly they will not be the first to write it).
Tells you when feeding him, when change it and when to do it sleep (ahahah! “do it” sleep!), and even what is the latest tit that you offered to small free …


If your pets are lovers of profit at all costs, to marry the philosophy of recycling, you might find under the tree, or VAC vacuum cleaner to be linked to, so you take two birds with one socket. I’m not kidding.


The shoes are another very popular vouchers: who knows why it always comes to mind at all that children have the feet (although he did not walk, at least not immediately). Nobody to be reminded of that poop and pee 12 times a day, and who present with an escort of diapers:


If you have a boy and a relative Aesthete may have the good fortune to receive a gift very politically correct, as the -spray hood para (i. e., those of pee). It’s called Pee Pee Tee Pee, translated “the Indian tent of pee”. Poetic, at least!


I then on good tip of my readers facebook-iani, all possible amenities and silver imaginable in: port-pacifier, chains, teaspoons, and those more … non ne metta, but save the cost and effort and opt for a package of diapers, thanks.


The new mums who work are more happy and fit!

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Moms with young children should work rather than stay at home pushed by the tender age of children into. It suggests a search of the University of North Carolina at Greensboro, according to which women with infants or pre-school children who work are more healthy and happier than those who prefer not to work for all day care for children.


In this statement I would like to respond by making a face similar to that of the Lady in the picture, obviously with built-in scream.


However, according to what we read in the Journal of Family Psychology, the scientists involved 1,364 women who had recently given birth and have followed from 1990 to 2000: the researchers found that those who had employment part-time with working hours up to 32 hours a week, reported a better overall health and fewer depressive symptoms than those who had remained at home.


There were significant health differences between women with part-time employment and full-time. These categories were happier because they perceived that their work was to support family life.


Hackneyed theme? Yes, but the Agency has just arrived. This is the latest study on the topic (which repeats more or less the same thing already known by a thousand other similar studies) and then why not take it back?:)


These researchers are right?


According to me ….
Personally, I already know, I think work well especially to psyche’s face. For me it is a relief valve. A way to immerse myself in a world different from what is the House. Work, I admit, I like it (from my I also lucky enough to do ;) work fine).
But not with a baby in her arms. The baby needs her mom and MOM needs her creature.
Then ok to resume work, but after weaning! Indeed, consistent with its commitments, after quite a bit!


I don’t agree however on the last point of the study, namely the lack of difference in health between those working part-time and full time.
On the contrary I think there is a huge difference, an abyss. A chasm. To be honest … an immensity!


Yes, an hour less I changed my life and decreased stress!
Let alone a part-time real!


 


Ferrari by stroller bags: Baby Sleeping Bag

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This was one of the first products reviewed by Mother proof, but I decided to publish it again because I saw him in winning form, with new colors, in the window of a shop in these days!
And SleepingBagBaby ‘ of i. GO by Montura.

It is one of the most stroller bags for “gifted” among those I had occasion today to meet product with high quality materials and with technical features and tricks that make it a truly outstanding product.
The manufacturer, not for nothing, Monturais specialized in technical sports clothing for the mountains, skiing and winter sports, as well as for extreme environments. A background which is a guarantee!


The price is certainly not of more content, but keep in mind that you are shopping bags-Ferrari stroller! Lo Buy Baby to buy.


At the time I recorded a video review for this aprons: worth devote a few minutes, because you’ll see a lot for stroller really out of the ordinary. In addition, in observing the characteristics of this lot, you’ll discover what makes the difference between a great accessory and any quality a lot.


Good vision!


The blocks pee. At the very least are unisex.

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A hood put on “at risk” during the change. I don’t ever to amaze me.

How not to classify this ingenious invention (coff coff … …) if not under “Nonsense”. Eh Yes, dear, ridi, ridi Aprovadimamma fact is that there are two different brands that distribute and sell these essential accessories for the return of the newborn.

On the one hand the Pee Pee Tee Pee, or “Indian tents” (tee pee, engl.), hoods, * there * where needed. The hood, in theory, should block any uncontrolled splashes, not only for boys, whose scope of tyre is notoriously by guinness, but also for the typical female ponds. The goal, in both cases, you avoid centering the MOM.  While not wanting the lack of necessity (noblesse oblige), as well as the fact that from that world is a world pannetto of cotton or a towel have always done the same dirty work with dignity, I should like to emphasise that the tyre concerned have lightweight cotton, then simply do not stand in their place and fly off to the first movement of the child. In their favor, if you really want to find a positive side, there is to say that they are washable and reusable: multi-pack are provided within a simplified with bag in the washing machine. But what a nice thought!  If you’re smart, you can now mothers then go further and WeeBlock ai trust, specially shaped and decorated sponges for the little fire hydrant. A bit more settled earlier, must still be kept in position if it is to have the effect desired absorbent. Not to mention the fact that even such a beautiful escort is required, since once drenched, washed and are reusable until they are dry.
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Do list birth: not what, but when and why

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Adear friend has just done, with considerable stress and suffering birth list.

Ah, the birth, childhood memories (mental).


For large fortune of * dear friend * this is his second son, but usually is a ritual that will consume the first appanzatura, i.e. before the birth of her first child. Behold, in this sense, the list should be banned, because birth inevitable source of sensational waste and errors.
You’ve never had a child, you don’t idea … er, change of life that awaits you, and you don’t realize absolutely what you need, nor what it will need him.


Now, far be it from me to the usual episode of what to put in the list, but let me bring to your attention a couple of little things.


1. Why do list. Because even if we put in two or three things that you will not end, it is always better to discard two or three things that several. I, on my list, I did write letters to the order “ANNE GEDDES”. And just because at the time was not yet resurrected Hello Kitty.


2. When do list. The answer is only one: in the late seventh and early eighth month of pregnancy. Not before, not after. Because if you do first, the Commission will show you the wonderful spring outfits that will die of heat that will be born baby at the end of summer, or rather will present you a nice ivory dress in cotton chenille with whom the child will immediately settembrino pneumonia. If you do, you risk after it is too late, and left without the list. Timing is the keyword: shop of the season, which is better.


3. How to make the list. To Be PRECISE. Avoid things like “cosmetic products” vague and generic, or you find a crate of oils and creams from culino. Choose the individual pieces, the exact model, the color that you like, and if you prefer no clarified which you don’t want, otherwise you give just that, sure. Get given the guarantee that you will be delivered exactly what you have chosen, and that if it is exhausted (from which I reiterate the importance of item 2) will be given the chance to choose another personally.


4. what not to put in the list. Maybe for you it is granted, but I was at the time, but very much conditioned by my iperurania idea of “having a child”, and this in my imaginary meant only one thing: baby bottles. Now, nothing forbids you to put bottles, sterilizers, teats, scolabiberon (Yes, they exist) and pacifiers in the list, but as you will realize is absolutely not saying that you need, because you could BREASTFEED, and we will quietly bottles planting flowers. I wasn’t there.


Those children who sleep alongside a sharp blade

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The city of art, Milwaukee decided to give space for an ad campaign really impact.

“To sleep with your baby can be equally dangerous”, this says the claim of advertising developed by the Health Department and designed by the company SERVES marketers, showing a few months baby asleep in an adult’s bed next to a butcher’s knife.
During the presentation of the campaign, the Mayor and the heads of the Department explained that the cot death is one of the causes of infant death more preventable: children should sleep alone to belly up and in their bed. Probably this would be enough to prevent the nine tragedies that have hit the city this year.

As a MOM, I realize that pictures like these are very strong: they induce in us a sense of guilt or call us at our responsibilities? Although I am one of those who struggled with herself, with sleep and fatigue of the first month not to bring the fledgling Pupattola in bed with him, I confess that sometimes I happened to fall asleep beside her with tit. But also remember that those hours of sleep were actually hours when was sleeping not really, always with an ear on and a neuron (or what was left) alert.
And remember also that if I were to get up for returning it endeavoured in his bed, and so would have been such fear of waking her up and having to start all over again, that I probably should be desisted.


The supporters of the co-sleeping do indeed note that mothers and children sleep together ever since (although once there were live news to inform us about any incidents, and the infant mortality rate was higher, although for many other reasons). Also claim that advertising like these should be directed to parents with poor social and cultural conditions, and not directed to the general public who does of neutral co-sleeping a conscious and informed choice.

And then I recommend this comprehensive roundup of Mom on the Design side-by-side, those that apply to the side of the bed, not having to move the child falls asleep, but still keep it next to her safely.
A complete series is also the Arms Reach‘s, if you want to give it a look.
According to me, however, solve the problem only in part, or rather, only for tit … I don’t know if I explain … or maybe you can fix them in half and put you to sleep once with the head and once with the feet on the pillow …?!Or simply you better hope that is so full of milk and so tired from bear to be raised to about 40 centimeters  :-S I love this blog, but manage it every day requires passion, time and … well, Yes, money! Ads are selected and limited, not to disturb the reading. If you appreciate this policy, my commitment, my reviews, and if the information you found you save time and effort, you can show me your appreciation with a donation.